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I’ve dated guys like that, the ones who were ready to marry me on the first date, and I wasn’t flattered…I was freaked out.The truth is, deciding when to sleep with a guy is important and will have an impact on your relationship. No girl has ever lost interest in a guy because he slept with her on the first date while guys lose interest in girls all the time for giving it up too soon.I stood silently as the whole thing started to unravel. They didn’t really know each other, all they knew were the superficial details that anyone else can be privy to.I make it a policy not to give my friends relationship advice unless they explicitly ask for it (and a lot of the time they won’t because they know I’ll hit them with the truth and they would rather stay in denial-ville). What do you know about him that you couldn’t find out from his online dating profile or Facebook page? Well he would show me pictures of his nieces and nephews and talk about them! Anyone on Facebook could see the pictures and I’m sure he talks about them to his friends and co-workers. When it comes to sleeping with a guy, the quantity of dates is an arbitrary measure of the state of your relationship.Also, my friends sometimes get mad at me for not giving them the answers they want so in order to keep the peace, I will stay mum until things get dire. ” I tried to stifle my laughter at the absurdity of her statement. What matters is the quality of the time you spend together on these dates.And when they did, my friend finally called me up and said: “I don’t get this, I really, really like him. I first pointed out the fact that she didn’t start really, really liking him until he stopped acting that way toward her. A girl who sleeps with a guy on the first date after an evening of intense, meaningful conversation that fosters a bond is much more likely to have a lasting relationship than a girl who sleeps with a guy she hasn’t really formed a connection with on the fifth date.Many years ago, a guy friend said something that completely changed the way I viewed sex and relationships.He said: “Before a girl sleeps with a guy, she has all the power.
He was smart, successful, and a dead ringer for Bradley Cooper. They exchanged a few flirty messages and he asked her to go out on a Saturday night.You don’t often see a woman plotting ways to sleep with many men and wiggle out of any sort of commitment, or a man trying to figure out how to get a girl to just commit and want only him.Just as there is a stigma against women who sleep with a lot of men, there is a stigma against men who are super into commitment and invest way too soon.Most men want sex and most women want a commitment.That’s not to say men don’t want commitment, they do, it’s just not the driving force behind their behavior, getting a lot of sex is.